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https://yahadut.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/03-14-13.jpeg16201080Following the week of shiva, there is less intense mourning which lasts for thirty days after the funeral. This ends the mourning period for most relatives. However, for the death of a parent, the children are obligated to continue mourning for a full year. During the thirty-day period, mourners may not get haircuts or shave. They may not participate in weddings and other mitzva celebrations, and they certainly may not participate in secular celebrations. They may not listen to joyful music even in private or any music in public. They may not buy new clothing or furniture or make other joy-inducing purchases. When necessary, mourners may buy gifts for relatives. They may participate in a small meal with friends but may not host such a meal. They may not go on vacations or outings whose primary aim is enjoyment, but they may go on educational outings or quiet getaways. Children ...